Marie Tippit, 92, Widow of J.D. Tippit Handed Away-I Bear in mind Her Fondly
DALLAS – The day after I obtained phrase Marie Tippit, the widow of J.D. Tippit, who was murdered by Lee Harvey Oswald the day John F. Kennedy was assassinated in Dallas, had died on the age of 92 my solely thought was I want I may have formally instructed her goodbye.
However you all the time assume you may have extra time.
It’s okay, although, as a result of I can hear her say my identify in my ear identical to it was yesterday. I can hear my identify identical to once I was in Jr. Excessive and Excessive College and her and my mother have been better of associates, and she or he was at our home so much.
Marie Tippit was a fixture within the Cook dinner household life.
She and my mom grew to become quick associates once I was very younger. They bought jewellery collectively – Sarah Coventry – however greater than something, they appreciated to remain up late at night time and speak and chuckle.
They have been what we name “besties” lately.
I by no means realized till later how robust Marie was – identical to my mother – and that’s the reason they have been greatest associates.
My dad simply shook his head at each of them.
The Bond of Widows
The 2 girls had so much in widespread too – as a result of each had misplaced first husbands.
For Marie, I bear in mind her speaking about J.D. Tippit so much, the love of her life.
Throughout my childhood, she had been remarried to Dallas Police Lt. Harry Thomas from 1967 to 1982, when he died of most cancers.
She had three kids with J.D. I solely met Allan, who had been born in 1950, and daughter Brenda, born in 1953, as soon as. Her youngest son Curtis was born in 1958 had all the time been my secret crush. Marie and my mother absolutely simply had a very good chuckle about that.
Throughout the summer time, my sisters and brother and I might head over to “Marie’s home” to go swimming as usually as potential.
Generally she and my mother would exit of city.
Their friendship was robust. Marie was all the time a breath of gorgeous, contemporary air when she entered any room. Even now, I can see her smile and listen to her voice so succinctly.
I’ve been a author all my life, however solely as soon as earlier than at present did I ever write an article about her life and dropping J.D.
My Interview With Marie On Kennedy Assassination Anniversary
That article was written for this paper – Focus Day by day Information – on the event of the Kennedy Assassination: 50 years in a while November 13, 2013.
I bear in mind Marie instructed me once I was writing that article that she was interviewed so much. She mentioned each time she was interviewed, she needed to relive it and take into consideration the ache. I reduce my interview brief, I didn’t need to make her should relive that once more.
“Perhaps I used to be simply not supposed to know why he was taken from me,” she instructed me, pondering her ideas.
Marie instructed me that day – nevertheless it was one thing I had identified since childhood – that she had forgiven Oswald. She was simply that sort of individual.
Throughout that interview in 2013 she mentioned very matter-of-factly “Sometime I’ll see J.D. in heaven. He was solely 39 and I used to be 35, however with out him, my life grew to become a nightmare for a time.”
On that day once I interviewed her, in typical Marie-style, she introduced the story again to me as a result of she was like that. She was filled with grace, magnificence and stoicism.
She Was Blessed & I Was Fortunate To Have Her In My Life
The truth is, she had been with me and my siblings after we took my mom off life assist. She by no means forgot that day and mentioned to me in 2013 once I interviewed her, “Your mom meant so much to me and she or he inspired me and I noticed you youngsters develop up. The Lord has blessed me though he did take J.D. away.”
When my sister known as me earlier this week and instructed me Marie was in hospice and it was COVID-19 and different medical issues, I knew I might by no means have the possibility to see her once more.
However I additionally know now she had the possibility to see J.D. once more – like she mentioned she was trying ahead to doing. And, I hope as properly, her and my mother are having a cup of espresso and chatting about outdated occasions.